Wednesday, December 29, 2010

chah

Aaj ye jana ki koi baat jo suni jati hai ,aaj apni jindgi me mahsus ki  yahi ki  kisi ko chahna hamare hath me nahi hota ye feeling khud b khud mann me kisi ke liye aa jati hai  yhi ki ye feelings god ki den hoti hai  thabi to kaha jata hai ki prem god ki bandgi hoti hai pyarr puja hota hai   jab hum prem karte hai to phale ye apesha rkhate hai ki vo be hume chahe, vo hume thukra dega  es darr se hum apni chahat  jise chate hai use bhatane se darte hai , ager kuch pnae ki chah hi na rkhe to darr lagega hi nahi , hum to sodha karte hai prem khan? 
Lekin aaj jindhi ne ye be sikha deeya ki , jise chate hai use kaho hi nahi , chot  khane ke darr se nahi blki esliye ki  kahi hum unkni dosti ko be kho na de , prem me chana hi dukh ka karan banti hai ,  jo dard sahan karta hai vhi to  prem ke mayne samj pata hai ,dard be to vhi sahan karta hai jo prem karna jantasa ho,
Aaj to life yaha tak  le aai hai muje ki , chah kar lo  magar vaps kuch pane ki chah n karna  , ab to ye haal hai ki btana be apni jindhi me muskil ho gaya hai vapas kuch pane ki chah nahi , phir be ,  bas darr hai kahi unki dosti be na kho du. Or hum kisi ko chah kar hum chahte be kya hai unki khushi  . ager hum dost ban kar be sath rahe or unki khushi ke liye kuch kar to payenge. Varna dhayad ye be na kar paye .
Well kuch milla nahi ye gham karne se to acha hai ki jo milala hai uska shukrya karna achsa. . vo hume chahta nahi ye ghum na karo . bhagwan ne hamare mann me prem deeya hai eska shukrya karo. Kyoki prem karne ka hak be kisi kisi ko milla karta hai .
Bas phool ki khusbu kit rah sabhi ko chaho , koi tumhe chahe ya na chahe

Friday, December 24, 2010

vardha ashram kyon

 Yaad nahi aa raha ki kab pada tha , pur kuch din pahale pada tha news paper me ki vartha-aashram bhanaya jar aha hai , kahan yaad nahi aa raha,
Padkar acha laga ki ab bhujrgo ko apne bhachho ki  yatnaaye jo body ko hi nahi mann ko hi nahi balki aatma ko ghayal kar deti hai  ve pedhaye sahne nahi padegi .
Phir dusare hi pal socha ki , aakhir kyon en    vardhaashram ki jarurat padhi banana ki
Jo kahte hai ki hum apne maa bbap ke enjoy ka phal hai,
Ve ye kyon nahi sochate ki
Us enjoys ki vo puri  kimat bhi to chukate hai  hume paal – poss kar
Apni echachyo ko  pal pal maar kar,  ve hume bhada karte hai , hume phada likha kar ek acha isaan banate hai ,
Or  humri chahto ko pura karne ke liye apni chahto ko pal pal marte hai
Jab hum bhade hote hai jab hume    unhe kuch dene ka vakt aata hai to hum kahte hai ki  inhohone hamare liye kiya hi kya hai
Ye to inka fharj tha
Phir hum kyuo  apne fharj se samay aane pur mukar jate hai
Kyuo unki parvarsh ko unka enjoy ka samay kahte hai
Ager vh enjoy hota to  ve hume kisi kachre ke deebhe me phenk dete
Lekin ve esa nahi karte , ager ve esa karte to  aaj vadhaashram nahi balki aaj anathalay khula karte
jab hum bhache hote hai to ve hamara  pal pal  dhayan rkhate hai , jab ve bhude ho bhache ban jate hai to hum kyon unhe nakara kah kar unhe ghar se nikkal dete hai  or unke liye aaj vrdhaashram banaye ja rahe hai
kyon ?

Thursday, December 23, 2010

prem

prem ke liye kya chahiye mann ya tan
prem ke liye to sirf mann chahiye phir kyou tan ki khubsurti ko duniya mayna diya karti hai
 prem to man se man ko pane ke liye hota hai
phir kyou kisi ko nicha ya kisi ko ucha dekha jata hai

khubsurti

sundrta ke liye kya chehiye mann sunder ya tan ,
hur kisi ki nazar me sundrta ke mayne alg alg hai

kavita

kavita ke liye mann me bhav hone chehiye thabi kisi ke liye mann se kavita likhi jati hai

Wednesday, December 22, 2010

Acupressure: Best way to meditate

Acupressure is an ancient healing art that uses the fingers to press key points on the surface of the skin to stimulate the body's natural self-curative abilities. When these points are pressed, they release muscular tension and promote the circulation of blood and the body's life force to aid healing. Acupuncture and acupressure use the same points, but acupuncture employs needles, while acupressure uses the gentle but firm pressure of hands (and even feet). There is a massive amount of scientific data that demonstrates why and how acupuncture is effective. But acupressure, the older of the two traditions, was neglected after the Chinese developed more technological methods for stimulating points with needles and electricity. Acupressure, however, continues to be the most effective method for self-treatment of tension-related ailments by using the power and sensitivity of the human hand.

Foremost among the advantages of acupressure's healing touch is that it is safe to do on yourself and others - even if you've never done it before - so long as you follow the instructions and pay attention to the cautions. There are no side effects from drugs, because there are no drugs. And the only equipment needed are your own two hands. You can practice acupressure therapy any time, anywhere.

My clinical experiences over the past eighteen years have shown me that acupressure can be effective in helping relieve headaches, eyestrain, sinus problems, neck pain, backaches, arthritis, muscle aches, and tension due to stress. I have also shown hundreds of my acupressure students, patients, and friends how to use acupressure to relieve ulcer pain, menstrual cramps, lower back aches, constipation, and indigestion. You can also use self-acupressure to relieve anxiety and to help you get to sleep at night.
Susan, a student of mine, was suffering from insomnia and occasional headaches for many years, as the result of a neck injury. 'I feel so tired and weary, nearly all the time, Michael," she said. "Can acupressure points help me?"

I showed her several potent points on her ankles and neck for headaches, as well as some upper-back stretching exercises for her insomnia. Susan reported to me two weeks later, glowing. "The treatment really worked! I've been sleeping uninterrupted and soundly through the night for the first time in fifteen years."

There are also great advantages to using acupressure as a way to balance the body and maintain good health. The healing touch of acupressure reduces tension, increases circulation, and enables the body to relax deeply. By relieving stress, acupressure strengthens resistance to disease and promotes wellness.
In acupressure, local symptoms are considered an expression of the condition of the body as a whole. A tension headache, for instance, may be rooted in the shoulder and neck area. Thus acupressure focuses on relieving pain and discomfort as well as on responding to tension before it develops into a "dis-ease" that is, before the constrictions and imbalances can do further damage. By using a combination of self-help methods such as trigger point stimulation, deep breathing, range-of-motion exercises, and relaxation techniques, you can improve your condition as well as feel more alive, healthy, and in harmony with your life.

Recently, Judy, one of my advanced acupressure students, complained about having night sweats. She was in the midst of making a serious decision about where to live, which also involved a relationship that was troubling her. I immediately noticed that her upper back was rounded by tension and discovered even more tension in her neck. I showed her the points for working on these areas. A month later, after using acupressure on herself twice a day, Judy reported that much of her upper back tension and a "ball" of deep anxiety had dissipated. She also felt clearer and more objective in dealing with her problems. Best of all, the night sweats that had made her miserable for two months were gone.

Alice, one of my elderly clients, had limited mobility in her neck with severe arthritic neck pain that radiated down her shoulders into her arms as well as up into her head. After her first acupressure session, she not only felt less discomfort but also had greater flexibility in her neck. For the first time in years, she was able to move her head freely without pain.

After several weeks Alice realized that she could help herself using the points underneath the base of her skull to relieve both her neck pain and stiffness. Recently she told me that whenever the pain "creeps up on her," she practices self-acupressure. It is possible that this increased mobility, in turn, prevents further deterioration.